Do I have your attention?
Good. As you can see I'm on my little soapbox, so you know I'm going to get into something quite juicy and appalling.
I've heard of it before, and I'm sure someone you know has posted a link to
this entry in this frustrated mama's blog. We all have heard of the issues mummy's face breastfeeding, not only is it difficult to get the knack of, but I've heard of some mummy's being told absolute untruths by uneducated, old-fashioned people about breastfeeding ((ie - how do you know your baby is getting enough?)). And on the other side, if you absolutely cannot breastfeed, it is disappointing and difficult to mix up formula for your baby when you had your heart set on something that everyone
seems to be doing so easily.
I know.
I breastfeed Vincent for 8 months. In the beginning it was SO hard. He didn't know what to do, I didn't know what to do. It seemed so easy at the breastfeeding class and in all the books, I thought I'd have it down pat no worries.
Well I didn't.
The first week was such a shock to the system, not only having this little baby, but trying to feed him. And it hurt so bad ((thankyou Lansinoh!)). And he'd latch onto anything, even if it wasn't a nipple. And that hurt even more! ((He had suction like a turbo vacuum cleaner)).
And then we had it great for 8 months. I could breastfeed him in my sleep, quite literally!
But then I had to go to hospital, and had to be put on medication that, while safe for Vincent to ingest, I just didn't like the idea of it at all. So I weaned him in January of this year. And he took to it like a duck to water. He loves formula, and is pretty easy, but I feel sad when I cuddle him and give him his bottle. It's just not the same as when I breastfed him.
Anyway, that was a complete and utter sidetrack, but now you know how important breastfeeding was to me. And how it is with some mothers.
The moment you have a baby, your breasts should not be viewed as sexual objects. They are just giant milk bottles. And I don't think it's terrible for people to breastfeed in public, ESPECIALLY if they are trying to make a point ((like the rebellious skank I am)). Heck I even breastfed Vincent on the bus 5 or 6 times because he was very upset.
What would people rather? A screaming baby, or a mama discreetly nursing? I'm sure the man next to me wasn't comfortable at all, but my boy had had enough of public transport, so I was trying to make him happy. And I doubt anyone saw anything - unless they were real skeeze-bags.
So back to the topic. FACEBOOK.
Argh, where do I start?
Facebook has this policy, which is great if they enforced it correctly, against sexually-explicit content. And I'm all for it. If I wanted to see porn I'd go to a porn site, right? But they don't enforce it properly. This is the whole point.
My friend is a porn star. And while she doesn't have actual porn photos on her facebook, you can kinda tell what she's up to. Ok, fine whatever. If you don't want to see it, don't go to her facebook. If you're a prude, report it. She'll just put them back up again.
But why on earth would facebook remove THIS PHOTO?
It's April, the author of the blog i mentioned above, breastfeeding her twins. It's a triumphant moment when you can successfully get your baby to latch on. I can't imagine how amazing it would feel having your TWINS latch on AT THE SAME TIME!
You can see more boob if you look at the magazine rack at your local service station.
Ok, so maybe not everyone wants to see a woman with her legs spread breastfeeding her kids.
SO WHY GO TO THE DAMN BREASTFEEDING FAN PAGE HUH??
But facebook has removed it due to it being offensive.
Unfortunately, my facebook has been acting like a big fat jerk ((har har)) on this computer, so I am unable to check to see how many facebook groups there are for tits + boobs. Actually I searched for "boobs" and it came up "Are you looking for BBOOBS or BOOBSS?" so people are getting around this enforcement anyway.
If you have such a problem against breastfeeding, why would you go to any groups or fan pages of breastfeeding you big fat jerks?
I am really really angry. Have you noticed?
Right, well, go read that link.
Here it is again. Spread the word! Post her link on Facebook. Send emails to Facebook, and the local media. I am contacting every news show I can think of. I'm getting off my soap-box, but you can jump on now if you'd like.